Thursday, March 28, 2013

sigh....

  • Yep I am too bummed to even use capital letters in that title.
  • I typed out a long post and cant seem to find it :(
  • It was about a political issue.
  • Guess which one.
  • Here it is in short.
  • Let them get married.
  • Who are they hurting?
  • Why shouldn't they be able to get benefits for their family the same I get them for mine?
  • Yes I even mean SS and other government funding.
  • Do they not pay into the same tax system as I do?
  • Do they get asked about their sexuality before Medicare, SS, and what ever else they deem fit to take out of our paychecks?
  • Everyone has a judgement day and on that day not I, nor the government will be there. It is not my place to judge them on their sexuality.
  • As for those who disagree on religious reason why don't you start changing the thing that people actually choose to do.  Sexuality is something you are born with, not something learned, not something that is chosen and not something people just wake up and decide one morning.
  • However, it is a sin to wear clothing made of more than one material or color, to masturbate, to have premarital sex, or to marry more than once.
  • Those are all things that people choose to do.  They can change the clothes they wear and their actions.  They can make a choice whether or not to divorce (even if they are unhappy, and I am not saying that is what people should do) and to remarry.
  • People are not protesting and the government is not making laws about the choices that people can control.
  • Why is that?
  • Because time changes people. What once was traditional is now a thing of the past and we as people are creating new traditions.  What is traditional to us will one day become a thing of the past as well.
  • Let them be married and live happy lives with one another.

(and yes this was the short version, I was on a rant when I wrote the first one)

Sunday, March 17, 2013

Finally Better!

  • I am feeling so much better! I still have a little bit of a cough but not to bad.
  • I had to go back and look when I started talking about being sick because I feel like it has been months.
  • I was pretty close to right.
  • Played cards with some friends last night. We are blessed to have such good friends.
  • I keep telling them I want a baby so they need to have one. :)
  • I think the guy is ready to kill me. Sorry.
  • Spring break wasn't too bad but we didn't do anything so the kids were restless and fought they whole time.
  • Maybe not fought; just picked at each other.  So the other one would whine.  I am ready to pull my hair out and ready for them to have some time away from each other.
  • My oldest son went with the debate team to state.  He didn't get to debate. He went as an alternate.
  • I never knew parents went to debate meets and golf tournaments.  I guess I need to start going.
  • Debate I thought no one was allowed and why would you go just to sit and wait outside the room.   I can be encouraging from anywhere. (If he will let me)
  • Also they walk the golf course and if I cheer or talk to him he will be disqualified. 
  • When I heard about other parents going I told him I would go watch him too.
  • His response "Uh. You don't have to." and "NO! That's ok." 
  • I was both disappointed and happy about that.
  • My boys are becoming young men.  They are also driving me nuts.
  • They want to go do stuff so we let them but they set up things with their friends and offer people up to do stuff they haven't agreed to yet and just assume that they will do it.
  • For instance.  One of the boys went to a birthday party. He was supposed to be picked up by noon.  He asked his other parent if it was ok and it was.  So he said they would be picking him up Saturday (it was the other parents weekend).  Well when I checked to make sure that he had been picked up he hadn't.
  • So I picked him up and he was ready to go to the other parents house but would I mind taking him.
  • GRRRRR!  Had he just asked the other parent in the first place I am sure they wouldn't have minded picking him up while they were in town (because they were in town that morning).
  • My stepchildren never answer my phone calls.  One I think because he leaves his phone everywhere and runs off to play.  He always calls back when he sees that he has missed a call though.
  • The other one not so much.  I call him and he doesn't answer so I text him.  He never calls back or responds.  It drives me nuts. I have to have his father call and get the info I need from him or to check on him.
  • It down right pisses me off. The only time he will call me back is when he needs a ride home or to somewhere.
  • I think maybe I wont answer my phone anymore....yeah right. I would be too worried.
  • That's it I have stuff to do and I already need a nap.

Friday, March 8, 2013

Getting better...

  • ...but still sick.
  • At least I don't feel like death is near any more.
  • How did we start Spring Break?
  • With 2 kids being sent home early. Poor things.  I hope its only a 24 hr bug.
  • I was in Fort Worth when the school called for the second one.  I was trying to find someone to pick him up because even if I turned around where I was it would have been over an hour before I got back.
  • My husband the sweet man that he is decided he would call all of our friends to see if they could help us out.  When they were unable to guess who he called (without talking to me about it.)! 
  • Did you guess his ex wife?  Because that's who he thought would be a good idea to pick out sick son up from school. He has no idea why I wouldn't like that.  We have helped her out with her kid why cant she help us out.
  • Its not that she helped us out. I am grateful for that. It bothers me that he still thinks of her to help him out. ( He also calls her when he knows she will have info that he wants but is really none of his business. That too drives me insane.)
  • Ok so maybe that makes me sound a little crazy and jealous.  But shit it doesn't seem like that long ago she was trying to figure out what went wrong and to get him back (uh yes that happen, and it was long after our, the hubby and I, children were born.)
  • Enough about that because I am going to get myself all worked up again.
  • Youth baseball have officially started back up.
  • They have started practicing, we have schedules, and Opening day will be March 30th!  I cant wait.
  • What I could wait for is the next week of practices. 
  • This is how my evenings have gone this week.
  • Sunday after noon ball field.
  • Monday ball field.
  • Tuesday ball field.
  • Wednesday ball field in 2 different places.
  • Thursday ball field in 2 different places.
  • Friday sick kids
  • Tomorrow ball field.
  • Yep that's 6 out of 7 days at the fields. I guess that's what I get for having so many dang boys!
  • Have you seen Pitch Perfect?  IF not its a great movie.  I think I would like to see something like that live.
  • Oh and I think I may have done something bad to the hubby.  He wants to watch vampires more than I do.

Sunday, March 3, 2013

OMG I am SICK!

Its getting worse not better :(  I would love some ideas for how to cure a nasty cough and chest congestion.  Oh and about 7 every night I start getting head aches and a fever. Its gone by morning though.  And  I have now started sharing it with Alex and Jim :(

Any ideas  I need help....oh and don't say see a doctor because that isn't going to happen.  I am not paying $160 for a cough...unless it literally starts killing me, which it might be because I feel that way sometimes.

Saturday, March 2, 2013

Today was a big day...

Today was a huge day for me. I would say Jim too but he didn't really seem to have any problem with it.  Today we bought a SUV....for our son(T)!  Its the first of many cars we will be purchasing for our children since we have five. This being the first it has made me feel old (all of my friends as well because they just cant believe the boys have grown up so fast). It is scary thinking of one of my children being on the road on his own. I thought of nothing but that when we were searching online for something for him.  What is safest? What gets good gas mileage? What will it cost to insure? Will we find something he likes?  We looked online at different cars, trucks, suvs, and anything else that came up for about 2 weeks. I was think one price range and Jim another.  We talked. I agreed and my price came down.  He is going to be ruff, he is most likely going to tear it up, or even wreck it.  We don't want to buy anything to expensive or something that we cant replace.  After all of that I still felt unprepared for our adventure today.

Skip the blue if you don't want all the details just the out come..

We started out local (well in the county and near by) but they didn't seem to have anything in the price range we were looking for so I asked.  I soon found out that car lots think of that price range as cash vehicles. Totally ok with me because that's what I had in mind. The problem with that is they tend to show you crap. I was thinking there is no way we are going to find a car for this price.  After all that talk about the price my mind was made up that was it we are not going over it. ( I have to be that way or else Jim would see something like it and not care how much it cost and get us into all kinds of trouble)  So the lady shows us a truck that might work for me. I got all kinds of excited because T had said he wanted one but I was against it.  He would be happy right? NO.  You mean you can hear those loud pipes and feel the vibrations from the big tires when you drive down the road? I thought they just looked cool. Well DUH!!! 

So on we go.  To Grapevine because that the next car lot that Jim had found "a lot" of good looking cars online.  PSH. We looked there for all of 15 mins.  What he had was way over priced or look like shit. It was nice of him not to hound us though.  Then where to you ask?  All the way to Keller.   What about all the other car lots we past?  Nope we aren't bothered to look at those because they weren't on the list (of 4- Decatur, Grapevine, Keller, and Arlington...really?)  Keller has some decent cars in our price range. Jim and I are checking them out.  T not so much doesn't seem the least bit interested in them. Then his interest only dropped off more when we learned the car he wanted to look at had been sold.  What 15 year old boy doesn't want to help pick out his car?!?!  After going through our list of one we thought might work for him we come across on that was already marked off the list but I cant remember why...oh yeah it was standard... We test drove it anyway. The door rattled when it shut though whats that?  So we look and there is shattered glass all over the ground a few shards in the nooks under the seat.  So of course I ask if anything was stolen.  Stuff gets messed up when you try to rip stuff out in a hurry. What did the sales guy say?  Nope not that it was a different one.  He continued with that story until I showed him the glass in the floor.  Then he didn't have much to say about it. 

We look at and talk about some other cars but end up leaving. This time we stop at the other car lots! Thank goodness.  We find nothing we like but Jim is still thinking about another car at the other lot.    We test drive a few more but they had something wrong with them or something we (Jim and I) didn't like.  T wasn't happy about one of those. 

We finally find one that he like but it will be just over budget with TTL. We go for it anyway. This is when I learned that there is a limit to the number of test drives you can have in a day. Really? You think I am going to come find one car in the lot drive it once and take it home? They are used cars!  There is no way I am going to keep looking at your lot if we find something that would work for us and you wont let us drive it.  If I cant drive it I am not buying.  We drove it. Jim approved, T loved it, now we just have to agree on the price.  (I had help with the research for pricing... Thanks Chelebell!)  We talk we agree to a price, tell the guy and he says...no :(  He ended up coming down some but not alot. It was ok though. TTL put us over our price range but not too much and nothing even close to trouble (even lower than my starting range).

I think he got his money back though. They charge $125 paper work fee!  Really? I just watched you print them out and sign them. It took less than 5 mins. Also, I looked at the taxes and they look right but then the government fees were high.  I know because I did my homework and call to find out what fees we have to pay and how much each was.  Should I have made him change them or take them off? My mom would have been proud but at this point I was ready to cry one of my babies is about to get a car!!!! So I didn't. The guy was nice and after putting up with me and my questions he earned it anyway.

It turns out we got a Saturn Vue.  T loves it, it drives great (when T isn't behind the wheel, we have lots of work to do before he is to be unleashed on the world in August), looks good, and is completely paid for and ours...his one day.

Friday, March 1, 2013

Life and Stuff...

  • So I have had a cough for what seems like 6 months now. It has only been 6 weeks though....Did I really just use the word only there?
  • I cant get rid of it. It starts to go away but then comes right back full force.
  • I decided to go to the doctor today but when I got there they said I had to do new patient paper work and would need to play $160 instead of the $60 office fee. Why? Because I haven't been sick enough to go to the doctor in over 3 years.
  • Sorry but I take my kids there all the time and even though I haven't been there since I changed my last name when I made the appointment she asked if I could be under my married name. Uh yes but I didn't know you had updated my file because I hadn't been in yet.
  • So I am in their computer, they have my updated information but I am a new patient? I don't get it. I also am not paying $160 for a cough!
  • I am currently looking for a new family doctor. Dang people pissed me off.
  • All that being said. I cant believe it is the end of the 4th six weeks already. It seems like it just started. Also that Spring Break is in just 2 weeks.
  • You know what else I cant believe? We are looking at buying our first child a car!
  • Baseball is starting! :) :( :) :( :) :(  I know I cant decide how excited I am because its a lot of practices and running around for me but I love the game!
  • That's it for now because well I am tired and feeling sick....

Oh one more thing!  Where did everyone go? Why did everyone quit blogging?  I mean I know I am sporadic and all but still I miss everyone.